What do i need to know about anal sex?

Anal sex should NEVER hurt, if it does something is not right. Read this through before you decide what to do. What I write comes form many years of pleasurable sex with my current girlfriend and my ex-wife. Cleaning out your colon is only part of the equation. First of all, TAKE IT EASY, many women will say they have their best orgasms during anal sex. Please know that there are risks involved in practicing anal sex. Some of these are: tears, anal fissures, development of hemorrhoids and recurring itching and irritation. In spite of this, many women enjoy anal sex as much as their partners. This is something you should do because YOU want to, not because you were led to by a savvy soft-spoken lover. Most these conditions can be prevented or eliminated with proper preparation and proper cleanup both before and after the encounter. Never use lubricants with any type of anesthesia, this could mask any damage being caused by doing it wrong. In order to minimize or eliminate the risks remember, the key is PROPER preparation: First thing is to empty the colon. Use an enema at least 30 minutes BEFORE penetration. If you don't empty the colon you will experience pain and have a risk for rupture/lacerations of the colon or anus tearing. Just for illustration, fill a sock to the top with newspapers; now try to put your fist IN the sock to the toes... very hard to do. Now empty the sock and try to put your hand in. very easy with minimal expansion of the sock, If you use the enema your colon would not be stretched that much once you get the feces out of the way. Two. LUBE, you can almost never have too much lube. Use a water based lube. DO NOT use Petroleum based lubricants or lotions such as baby oil or petroleum jelly. Go to an adult store or pharmacy, they have water based personal lubricants that will work fine. Have him apply it inside your anus with his fingers, very slowly. This will do two things, lubricate you and assist with relaxing the sphincter. Have him use one or two fingers for at least five minutes while he goes down on you or caress your body... just ensure he helps on relaxing your anus muscles. Three take it easy and have him agree that when you say stop it means stop. You must control speed and depth of penetration or rhythm of encounter. For the first penetration try to push a little as if having a bowel movement, this will assist on relaxing the anus and ease penetration. He will enjoy if you tighten your anus after he penetrates. I recommend he use a condom to prevent infections. After you finish ensure you both wash up very well. NEVER go from anal to vaginal sex without washing. This would be VERY DANGEROUS for you. If you are concerned about STD's just ensure you have a clean partner. Take it easy and have fun. Don't forget, NEVER use Petroleum based lubricants, they can irritate you very badly.